Can stay dry for at least 2 hours during the day or wakes up dry from naps
Recognizes when they are urinating or having a bowel movement (may pause, squat, or tell you)
Can follow simple directions
Can pull pants up and down with some help
Shows interest in the toilet, potty chair, or wearing “big kid” underwear
Step 1: Set Up for Success
Choose a child-sized potty chair or a secure toilet seat insert with a step stool.
Let your toddler explore it fully before starting.
Read books or watch short videos about potty training to make it fun.
Sit your child on the potty at regular times: after waking, after meals, and before bed.
Don’t expect results right away—just practicing sitting builds comfort.
Keep sessions short (a few minutes).
Offer praise for effort, not just success (“Great job sitting on the potty!”).
Use small rewards if motivating (stickers, extra story time, a special high-five).
Accidents will happen—respond calmly and avoid punishment.
Increase fluids and fiber if constipation is an issue (constipation can set training back).
Dress your toddler in easy-to-remove clothing.
Model the behavior—let them watch a parent or sibling use the toilet.
Most children are reliably trained by 3–4 years, but every child is different.
Nighttime dryness takes longer—normal up to 5–6 years.
If your child resists strongly, take a break and try again in a few weeks.