Biting in Toddlers

1. Exploration and Curiosity

• Toddlers learn about the world through their mouths. Biting can simply be an extension of sensory exploration—especially for children under 2 years old. They’re not intending harm; they’re experimenting.

2. Teething and Oral Discomfort

• When teeth are erupting, gums are sore and biting can bring relief. Biting toys, teething rings, or even a caregiver’s shoulder can help soothe that discomfort.

3. Frustration or Inability to Communicate

• Toddlers often bite when they can’t express big feelings—anger, excitement, or a desire for attention. Limited vocabulary makes biting an impulsive way to say “I’m mad!” or “That’s mine!”

4. Attention-Seeking or Emotional Response

• If a child notices that biting gets a big reaction—whether positive or negative—they might repeat it for attention. This is especially common in group settings or with new siblings.

5. Imitation or Overstimulation

• Children sometimes mimic behaviors they’ve seen or bite when they’re overstimulated, tired, or overwhelmed. It’s a release of pent-up energy or a way to regain control in chaotic settings.

What Parents Can Do

1. Stay Calm and Respond Quickly

   • Gently but firmly say: “No biting. Biting hurts.”

   • Remove your child from the situation if needed.

2. Teach Alternatives

   • Encourage words: “I’m mad!” or “It’s mine!”

   • Offer teething toys or crunchy snacks if biting seems sensory or teething-related.

3. Give Positive Attention

   • Notice and praise your child when they share, play gently, or use words.

4. Prevent Triggers

   • Watch for situations when your child is tired, hungry, or frustrated and step in early.

   • Provide plenty of active play and chances to release energy.

5. Be Consistent

   • Respond the same way each time.

   • Work with teachers, caregivers, and family so your child gets a consistent message.

When to Call Your Pediatrician

• If biting is frequent and severe.

• If your child also shows other behavioral concerns (extreme aggression, withdrawal, or language delays).

• If biting continues past age 4.

✨ Remember: Most toddlers outgrow biting with guidance, patience, and consistency.